Complicated Situations

How do you deal with problems or issues that pop up out of no where and you have no idea how to handle or deal with it? It is always really hard to deal with because you just have emotions running and thoughts going a million a minute but sometimes you just need to stop and relax, realize everything happens for a reason, and deal with the situation your dealt with. There is always a reason we go through the things we do, we may not know why right now but eventually it will all make sense and everything will always be ok. Even if it doesnt seem that way it will be.

Rejection

Why are we faced with rejection? How can we deal with rejection in a positive way? When we talk about rejection we could be referring to many different things, not got a job we really wanted, not getting in the college we were hoping to, or not being able to be with someone we desperately are longing for. What ever the case may be rejection in any situation sucks and you feel like you've just been shot down and have no idea where to go from there. So what I try to do even though it's difficult and I don't really want to, I pick myself up, dust myself off, and move on. Things didn't work out for a reason and you always have to remember that. Also you have to remember things will get better you just have to give it time. I'll before the first one to admit that i'm not a patient person but i'm going to be because everything will work out for the best.

Stress

What are some good ways to deal with stress? Is it ok to put everyone before yourself? Stress is something we all deal with at some point in our lives. Some experience it on a daily basis and some of us just deal with at certain times in our lives. Either way it really puts a strain on us as people. There's only so much one person can handle until they just break. I try to be there for everyone and help everyone as much as I possibly can but right now i'm at the point that I feel like i'm forgetting about myself and putting everyone else before me. I'm just not the kind of person to put myself before others but i'm so drained and exhausted I don't even know what to do anymore. I deal with my stress in the wrong ways. I just keep in my mind that things will get better you just have to give it time.

Timing

Have you ever felt like something was just right and you know it's right but timing is a big problem? That's where I am in my life right now. When someone comes into your life and changes your outlook on life in a positive way. When a person cares about you more than you ever thought they could or would for that matter. When you love this person and they love you. But there is just that one problem. Timing. I'm hoping my situation will eventually turn into something amazing. Just staying positive about these kinds of situations and not letting little things or other people get you down. 

Crushes?!?!?!?!

When you think about crushes you think about little kids or elementary school and boys having cooties and things like that. But it's so much more different when your in high school and you have a crush on someone because it's a little more serious and you kind of know a lot more about love. Like i can remember having a crush in elementary school and it was so like care free and just not really real. Now though it is completely different. You kind of go through a process when your older and have a crush. First you try to become friends and thats cool and everything. Then you become really close like best friends and thats really great. Then you come to where I am right now. How do you take the next step in this confusing situation. Do you try to make things happen or let them happen on there own? Do you just keep it as being best friends and not trying to turn it in to anything else? These are the complicated questions I am dealing with right now and I have no idea what to do.

New Beginning

I'm in a very excited place right now in my life and I'm have excited and have scared. High school ends in like 40 days which is exciting but I have always said I never want to leave high school. In like 4 months I start the whole college experiencing and I think it will be very overwhelming and a huge change from high school. But I'm feeling so ready for this. Like this is what needs to happen so I can push past place I'm in and move on to something new and fresh and exciting.

Memories

I don't know how people deal with losing someone there close to and then feeling like all the memories you had with them are gone with that person. I have a hard time remembering time or experiences I shared with my grandma and she has been gone 5 months. How do you preserve thoughts, feelings, and memories about people you have lost. I really need to figure out the answer to that question.